Friday, November 7, 2008
First Field Trip
Apple Pickin'
Friday, October 17, 2008
To Each His Own
----Susanne
Thursday, October 9, 2008
AWANA
Monday, October 6, 2008
Big Trucks
Baby Cakes
Yesterday Nate and I were sitting on the sofa with Caleb. I was holding Caleb in my lap and Nate was astounded at how small Caleb's feet were. I was trying to tell him that he used to be that small and his hands and feet were tiny like that when he was a baby. Nate was adamant that he was never that small. It dawned on us that he has probably no concept of himself as a baby. I doubt he had pictures of himself as a baby. He may have never really seen a picture of himself at any age. He loves to look at pictures and is always excited when I get a picture of him to hang up around the house.
It never ceases to fascinate me when you get to talking to him. We are so blessed here in America and we are so blessed by our families. Imagine what that is like to not ever have considered yourself to be a baby, to have no photo history of your life.
Thank you for your prayers for his reading. It is getting soooooo much easier to do his homework. He got half of his words right on his first spelling test. That is a victory to us. Spelling is all about sounding out your words and he was able to get some of it right.
Our next new step for Nate is that the Children's choir is singing on Sunday in church. He likes music and art so I am excited to see what he does up there in front of everyone with the other children. He was singing his song in the shower last night, it was so cute, singing in a singsong voice, you know that one you use when you know the melody but not the words. It was a hoot! He was trying to sing "I Will Worship". Kit and I sang along with him before bed to help him learn the words. We will have to keep you updated after church next Sunday.
----Susanne
Friday, September 26, 2008
Cathing Up!
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Come On Let's Go School
Sunday, August 31, 2008
Hershey Park
Hugs and Kisses
I have learned that he has never had a birthday cake, his younger foster brother had had 2 cakes, but he has never had any. His foster parents always called him by his full Chinese name. Now, I know this a custom in China, but you call an acquaintance by their full name and someone that you are familiar with by their first and middle name. He also told us that he didn't get hugs or kisses from his foster parents. I would imagine that statement isn't 100% true, but it must not have been the norm to be hugged and kissed. I am sure that they loved him and I know that they took good care of him, but I am really struck by these revelations.
So many of the things that I learn about Nate and his prior world amaze me when I view them with a biblical worldview. God really does fill the hearts of his people with a love that surpasses the love of the world. Adoption is a true picture of how we were adopted into God's family. He calls us His, He is intimate with us on a first name basis, He holds us in His hand, and shows us that love is truly an action. Amazing Love...
-----Susanne
Are we speaking the same language here?
Lonely isn't an English word that Nate knows, so Chris looks it up in our English/Mandarin dictionary. So Chris tells him that is isn't good to be "don do", too much, that would be sad, "you don't want to be don do" is the exact quote.
Nate just looked at him strangely and said "No don do". Obviously Chris has the wrong tones on this word and he is saying something that doesn't make sense.
A week later Nate and I are in the bathroom getting ready for bed, Kit was the first kid in there and had left his underpants hanging out on the floor. Nate points to them and says "Kit's don do"!
Translation: Chris told Nate "You don't want to be underwear!" You're right Dad no one wants to be underwear!
----Susanne
Monday, August 18, 2008
Camping
Crabbing off of the pier!
Hanging out at the campsite
Saturday, August 9, 2008
What's in a Name?
Uncle Tonya, CG, Tonya
Sus, Bean, Susie Q
Chops
Bird
BoBo
Everyone that is but Nate. The boys and I explained the concept of nicknames to him, he decided he wanted to make up his own nickname. What is it you ask? Quack
Why Quack? I don't know! But for the moment it is sticking as evidenced by the following story.
This morning the boys were stacking bean bag chairs up, then running the length of 2 rooms and diving into them. Nate especially thought this was a hoot. The line was forming in the kitchen and each participant would chant for the runner as he made his way into the family room. Nate's turn and what do I hear 3 little boys chanting? Quack, Quack, Quack!
Olympics
Last night we sat down to watch and we had told Nate that he would see China on the TV. He broke my heart though when I realized he had his solemn face on. I was able to get him to say that he was sad for China. I just held him and told him that I could understand that, our prayer is that God speaks Chinese to him when we are speaking English in those times. He did perk up after a little bit once he saw the drummers and heard them speaking Chinese.
At one point I said "you are Chinese" in Mandarin and he responded with a smile and "Yes" in English. That made me smile to hear his English answer to a Chinese question and it shows me how far he has come. Awesome!
---Susanne
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Down the Ocean Hon!
1st Trip to The Dentist
Nate is such a Champ, you could tell that he was scared, but he prides himself on being tough and he just sat in that dentist chair and took it on. The x-rays showed he hasn't lost any teeth yet, we are so glad that we get to share that experience with him, since there is so much that we have missed in his life. The hygienist gave him a thorough cleaning because his teeth are so stained, I think it is from all of the tea that they drink. His teeth are actually white now. I am so happy that his teeth are in such good shape, one less thing that he has to go through.
As we left, Kit asked him if he liked the Dentist? He looked at Kit with this incredulous face and said "No" as if it was the silliest thing he had ever heard. Kit couldn't believe it, "but you got a new toothbrush!"
Susanne
Sunday, July 20, 2008
At the Name of Jesus...
My favorite moment came yesterday when this sweet little boy, who is not speaking English yet, started to sing...at the name of Jesus every knee shall bow. What a powerful testimony to God's power. This child who likes to make little altars out of blocks, bow down to them on his knees saying Xiexie (thanks), speaking a Biblical truth. It was awesome and it made me cry!!!
Susanne
Say What Doc?
While at the dermatologist we discovered his "special need" had been misdiagnosed. He has something called Blue Rubber Bleb Nevus Syndrome, who thought that up? It is fairly rare, so we felt like we were in good hands. The doctors see a few other patients who have this and are doing fine. The major concern at the moment is that we need to get an MRI to look at his enlarged thigh (it is probably a big bleb) and his stomach and intestines. You can have the blebs inside and you want to make sure they aren't bleeding. We are waiting for the MRI to be scheduled because the doctor we saw will be there as his anesthesiologist.
What a great area we live in here in Baltimore, Nate has so many medical resources available to him 20 minutes down the road. What a blessing! We will keep you posted!
----Susanne
Monday, July 7, 2008
Progress
Sus
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Chinglish
apple (what a good mommy I am teaching him such a healthy thing)
cookie(what a good mommy I am teaching him such a tasty thing)
googles (you can't swim with out them)
America America!
Yesterday was a day filled with 2 parties, one on the river and one at a pool. Both had lots and lots of food. What must be going on his little mind? He was head over heels excited at the party on the river, he had what must have been his first boat roads in a paddle boat and a canoe. He really didn't hesitate to jump in to the water and have some fun with all of the other kids. The time in/on the river really brought him to life and you could just see his happiness. We asked him if he liked America while we were out paddling around, and he answered a "yes" in his sweet little voice. I am not sure how much water exposure he has had before, China has lakes, but if he lived on the mountainside it might be a new experience for him.
At the 2nd party he got a kick out of the line dancing. You could tell he was interested in it and would probably have given it a try if we had a little more time to persuade him. Uncle Rich carried him over to the dance area and I tried my hardest to get him to give the Electric Slide a-go, but he just laughed and laughed and laughed about it. Then it was a game, he would race back to the chair and wait for you to pull him out and try again. Good bonding time!
I am enjoying each experience with him to see his reaction, sometimes it is exactly what I expected and other times it isn't, Nate likes to keep you on your toes!
Sus
Friday, July 4, 2008
Let's Go O's
----Susanne
Monday, June 30, 2008
Fascinating Discoveries
- ice that falls magically from the refrigerator
- cold air when you stand on the vent
- helicopters and airplanes
- the Alban Cat complex with all of their machinery sitting on the lot
- Johns Hopkins Medical Campus as we drove by this morning, I think it was because of the construction around there or he just has a great love of Western medicine.
- raw cookie dough
- electric pencil sharpener
-----Susanne
Speaking English
Go figure, a boy that loves cars, has spent time playing with them this morning and has run out in front of several cars would speak that for is first word.
---Susanne
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Homeward Bound
Before we landed in Beijing we were stuck in a little bit of a holding pattern. No biggie, Zachary was squealing with the need to use the bathroom though! Got all of our bags, one of the boys in the group had a lost piece of luggage so we waited to figure out that situation. Zachary wants you to know it was a lost sword that he had bought in Guangzhou. No big deal, we have to wait until 6:30pm for this next flight.We all check our paperwork and figure out that we must head off to terminal 2, schlep all of our luggage on to the hot sticky wasteland of a bus. Compared to the beauty of the terminal (prepared for the Olympics), we were in the low rent part of the airport. Guess what, wrong terminal got to go back to Terminal 3. Let’s put our luggage on the elevator to go down and out. I get on with the kids and some luggage. Chris waits for the next elevator, puts the bags on and is holding the door with his elbow, the door shuts anyway. Mr. Ugly American comes to town and kicks the steel doors as he yells out in frustration. Then he comes barreling down the escalator, calling for all hands on deck. All the adults scattered to the 4 different levels. Finally, Linda ended up finding the luggage. Haul it all back on the stinky sweaty shuttle bus and ride back to the mecca of Terminal 3. So much for thinking that we will have hours and hours of boredom as we wait for our 6:30pm flight to Dulles.
The flight is almost over, I think we have about an hour to go before we land. At this point we have been up for about 25 hours. Sleeping, if you can really call it that on the airplane doesn’t really count as sleeping. Compared to the food on the China domestic flights the food offered on this United flight has been delicious. Ahhh! Good airplane food, we missed it so. The other part of inflight service we were loving was the ice in the cups. Ahhh! Just divine! No business class this time, but we were fortunate enough to be bumped up to “economy plus”, a little more leg room then the normal economy. Not too bad though, we are just ready to be done.
Oh yeah….they are getting ready to tell me to turn this thing off!!!!! I can feel that we are heading downward. Yeah….Baltimore here we come!! 40 minutes until arrival, that is about 30 minutes earlier then the original timeline. See you all soon!
---Susanne
The End of the Road
Today was a low-key day for our group. We had a group picture this morning, several families here have 7,8,9 people with them, a few have 3 people, you can imagine it was quite the picture. In our free time we shopped a little more and went swimming again. For lunch today we had some McDonald’s burgers, just the burgers, sick of everything else they have to offer. You know it is bad when Kit tells you, “anything but McDonald's, it keeps giving me gas.” Nathaniel has found his first love in French fries, he didn’t like the burger though. Every time we walk past the bench with Ronald McDonald sitting on it we have to stop and take a picture of Nathaniel.
This afternoon we headed to the American Consulate to do our swearing ceremony. To be honest, I don’t know what I agreed to… I kept thinking, wait I might have changed my mind. I can’t handle this, are you sure about this God? I think maybe you got the wrong gal here Lord. I know….Moses and I have a little something in common. After dinner we headed straight to dinner. This time when Nathaniel picked a pricey item, I put my mommy foot down and tried to explain in my best pantomime, that it was too much. My new mantra throughout dinner is Country Mouse. Remember the story: City Mouse, Country Mouse? If you don’t the idea is that the country mice don’t know how to act in the city. We’ve got ourselves a country mouse folks. This little farm boy doesn’t know not to run in the street or to not pour his tea in his saucer and slurp it out of there. Elevator buttons, bells and escalators are all new to this little guy and I can’t wait to get him home where we don’t have an elevator that he can press all of the buttons so that we stop at each floor.
I’m longing for my bed, doing laundry (as sad as that is, it is true!), eating a dinner that I like without paying money for it and waiting for ever for the food to be served, playing outside and a routine.
Thank you for all of your prayers. We have appreciated them and needed every single one of them. Keep praying for us dear friends as we have many adjustments to still make. Pray for Nathaniel as he grieves the foster family he lost, we found out today that he had 4 older foster siblings and 2 younger foster siblings. No wonder why he is so angry at times.
See you all soon!
----Susanne
Monday, June 23, 2008
Lows and Highs
This morning Susanne and I were both feeling discouraged. We knew that we were in store for some rocky times when we decided to make this jump, but we also thought we would have a honeymoon period of sorts, at least while we were in China. There have been so many encouraging things the past week (one week! Wow!), but plenty of frustrations as well.
Thanks for your prayers – today was probably our best day yet with Nathaniel. As Susanne reported, we are making a habit of calling him “Nathaniel Weifeng” now. Kind of a mouthful, but he’s getting it.
After a heart to heart and some praying, Susanne stayed behind in the hotel with Nathaniel, waiting on an administrative phone call. The other three boys, Mom and Dad, and I walked to a local park.
They do parks right in China – beautifully landscaped, bridges, lakes, peeing children…
Yes folks, peeing children. Totally legit in China. To the point where a child being potty trained will walk around in tush-eating shark attack survivor pants – no cloth over the derrier.
The park was Africa hot – the highlight was eagle-eyed Joshua finding 3 mini frogs. This is on top of the frog he found yesterday. Said frog was a covert guest of our 5 star hotel last night, evidently. Josh made sure he was doing OK – found a baggy and put a touch of water in it, made sure there was a little passageway for air at the top. Frog #1 was set free on the way to the park. When we asked Josh what the frog did after getting his freedom back, he reported – “He looked at me.” This made me laugh out loud. Frogs 2 through 4 are in their little Joshua-created ecosystem in a mini water bottle as we speak.
The real blessing of the day was the time Susanne and Nathaniel had back in the room while we were gone. The looked at pictures and watched a bunch of home movie snippets on the computer. Nathaniel laughed and laughed at goofy videos of the boys dancing to the Cars soundtrack at home. It reminded us of how he hasn’t really seen the real Hardings yet. Just the slightly stressed, crammed in, too long in a foreign country Hardings.
This afternoon we caved in and did a bunch of souvenir shopping. Up to this point we had largely avoided this. The boys all got “chops.” I used to think this referred to chopsticks, but instead it is the name for a personalized stamp, carved with your name or anything else you might like. The stamp itself is made of jade, with an animal carved into the top. These things are to China tourism what the hermit crab is to Ocean City. OBLIGATORY.
Susanne bought herself a silk dress, tailored and all for less than $30. I scratched my itch for buying knockoff name brand stuff, too. You all can play “guess the knock off” when you see me. For all of you “Way of the Master” trained peeps out there, yes, I guess that makes me a thief. There I said it. Finally, what trip to China would be complete without the purchase of cheap plastic swords? Not this one.
This evening, many of the families in our travel group commandeered the area in front of the elevators on the seventh floor for a talent show and pizza party. A sweet night of real Christian fellowship. All the kids got up there and did silly things, and everybody ate it up and applauded while we ate overpriced Papa John’s. ($20ish per pizza) Color me biased, but little Kit was a big hit with his dancing exhibition. The kid can shake his booty, and he doesn’t care who knows it. Joshua pulled out his secret talent of competitive arm-tooting, much to the delight of the ladies in the crowd. Zachary boldly offered up his Kyle Boller imitation / schtick. Poor Kyle…people taking pot shots at you in the off season from half a world away. We couldn’t convince Nathaniel to get up there, although the stinker did sing “Happy Birthday to you” in ENGLISH (!!!!) to me at bedtime tonight. Don’t know if he memorized it from hearing it tonight at the talent show or if it’s taught in school along the lines of Frere Jacque or whatever the heck that French song is. Kudos to Candace Keck (who reminds us so much of Brenda Castlebury, it kills us) for this awesome idea.
It has been such a blessing to be in the company of these families. You could not have asked for a more genuinely Christian group of people. I get choked up when we are together as a group to see the love of Christ so tangibly displayed in their lives.
That’s all for now. Thanks to everybody who has been checking up on us. We still need your prayers! Satan would like nothing better than to attack our family and somehow interfere as we, in Joshua’s words, introduce Nathaniel to the “one true God.” For the longest time we were not able to read your comments, but now we can, and it’s a joy to see them.
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Prayer Request
I think Nathaniel has been in a foster family that worshipped buddha. We have found him doing some kind of prayer chant a few times. Chris prayed with him last night that Jesus would just chase away the false spirits. While Chris was praying this, Nathaniel started letting out angry screams during the pray, so please pray that God would wrestle this little guy's heart away from the false idols of this world and mold it for Him.
Susanne and Chris
Name Change
---Susanne
Feelin' Hot Hot Hot
This morning our group went to a temple that had been turned into a museum. The wood work was extraordinarily beautiful. Did you know that there are people in China who sleep on wood beds and use porcelain pillows? The wood is supposed to be good for your bones and the porcelain is cooler than a nice soft pillow. How could you even sleep like that? After the museum we headed over to a tea house, we really thought it paled in comparison to the experience we had in the Kunming tea house. We tasted monkey tea today. The leaves are so high up in the mountains that they monkeys have to pick it. Our group decided if you need monkeys to pick it, it isn’t worth drinking. It was terrible; the only way to get it down was to slug it back. Kit thought it was so bad he wouldn’t finish it, and no one was willing to drink it for him so that his cup would be empty. We are only really talking about 2 Tbs worth of liquid, that is how bad it was.
We spent the afternoon at the pool today. It was so nice, although this pool is rules out the wazoo. You can’t do anything that remotely resembles fun. 2 of the moms were wearing swimsuits with skirts and they were questioned if they were really wearing swimsuits. The pool attendants stand at the edge of the pool and are quick to tell you if you are breaking a rule.
This trip has been so much fun for the boys; they have really enjoyed playing with the older boys. They are very nice young men. If we aren’t sure where the boys are we only have to look for Tanner or Hayden to find our boys. We are with a really fun group of people. We have enjoyed eating together as a group, although we are a little intimidating in size. We had 28 people at a restaurant tonight and it was obvious we had overwhelmed them. Zach, Josh and Kit had to wait the longest for their dinners, they did remarkably well considering I had been finished my meal for a good 15minutes before they were served.
We are going to have to retrain Nathaniel on restaurant behavior when we get home. He takes the menu and just selects what the wants. This is easiest for the moment because he can’t communicate with words what he likes. Tonight he picks a pasta dish with lobster sauce and seafood. I questioned whether or not he would like this. One of the ladies in our group is fluent in Mandarin so I had her ask him if he liked seafood. He said yes. I should have gone with my gut instinct. He didn’t eat one single bite of that seafood, he liked the pasta. Never one to let good food go to waste, Chris decided he was going to try the squid that was on the plate. Yes, squid and octopus legs were the seafood! I have pictures of each of the men eating these little critters. The consensus was that it was rubbery. Joshua’s response to us trying to convince him to eat it…”no thanks, I’ve eaten a rubber band before”. Sensible me didn’t try it either.
I don't have the pictures downloaded at the moment but I will try to get them on our next post.
---Susanne
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Paperwork and More!
Off to the baby visa pictures and medical examinations for all of us. Our guide, Amy, took us to a grocery store so that we could make some food purchases. I am really excited to have a peanut butter and jelly sandwich tomorrow for my lunch. Yummy!
Back to hotel to get ready for our paperwork party, over 2 hours of filling out papers, so much fun. While I was slaving away Chris, the boys, Ron and Linda went to enjoy the pool. I was jealous. Can’t wait to go swimming tomorrow.
Stay tuned for tomorrow.
Susanne
Prayer Requests
Please pray for Weifeng to attach to us.
Please pray for him as he grieves for his foster family of 5 years, he loved them a lot.
Please pray that God would work on his heart to become soft and obedient, his will is strong and he doesn’t appreciate having his freedoms being restricted.
Please pray for his spiritual development, I think I may have found him doing some kind of false god prayer a few times, I will be interested in listening to what he has to tell us about it when he can communicate.
Please pray for his English to develop, he doesn’t seem to have a desire to try it out.
Chris and Susanne
Farewell Kunming
While getting ready to take a hike to McDonald’s for lunch, the boys were playing in the room. Crash, boom, bang..Weifeng wiped out on the nightstand and split his eye open? I am glad that I brought a medical kit, cleaned it up, iced it and bandaged it.
2 o’clock rolls around, time to leave for the airport. On the way there we made a stop at a local tea house. What a fun experience! We sampled 4 different teas, each to be enjoyed a different way, one you had to slurp to get the flavor and one you had to “chew”. The kids liked the tea baby; you put it in a cup and poured water in to test the temperature. If it was too hot, the baby would pee pee out water. You’ll never believe it, the water was hot, and he pee peed on us! Oh man Weifeng’s cut is bleeding!
We still had time to waste so we went to the flower market. This place was huge and overwhelming with flowers. They are so inexpensive that it is considered an insult for a man to give his lady flowers. Julie and Bernie bought a bunch of lilies and a bunch of gladiolas, I think it cost abut $4 US. Isn’t that amazing? Susan told us they would sell out of their flowers and have new ones in the morning. Oh man Weifeng’s cut is bleeding again!
One of the best parts of the day was seeing Weifeng experience the airplane for the first time, even the airport was full of new adventures. I now know the Mandarin word for airplane cold; I also looked at 50 or so pictures that he drew of the airplane. As we touched ground all I can tell you is….man, Weifeng’s head is still bleeding.
Uncle!!!!!Ever been in a medical clinic at 11pm in China? We have!!! 4 prescriptions and US $221 later we are back to the hotel for some sleep. No stitches needed, only steri-strips. They won’t take your child back from you will they?
Let’s hope there are no new injuries or illnesses tomorrow.
----Susanne
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Stone Forest
Green Lake Park
At one point the boys found a huge gaggle of geese, they all climbed out of the lake together, I bet it was 40 geese, then followed a worker down the path as he hurried them along. Where these geese were going in such a hurry, I've got no idea.
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
A Visit to the Orphanage
- Where had he been living? About an hour away, with a farmer's family
- How many foster families had he been assigned to? Just 1 (gulp.)
- How long had he been there? Many years - we think 5. (double gulp.)
- Is there anything that makes him scared? "Gui" (goo-ey - 'ghosts') - we laughed
- What are your favorite colors? blue and green
- How much schooling has he had? 3 yrs, two preschool yrs and kindergarten
- How many siblings did he have in his foster family? 2 sisters (unsure of ages) and a younger brother
The orphanage director came in and spent some time with us, as well. The Fiorelli family told us she has the reputation of running a very tight ship. I will say this: the orphanage was spotless. It was huge, well furnished, fairly modern. There was an overall hopeful feel to the place.
We saw the infant room, which I think made all of sad. There were about 20 babies in there with 2 nannies to look after them. We saw a toddler room, rooms full of rows and rows and rows of cribs or beds. Weifeng spent some time in school there, so we saw some school rooms. We only took 1 or 2 pictures inside the facility. We were told when and what we could take a picture of, if we would take a picture of the wrong thing, we would have had our film card taken away. The same holds true for pictures you take of any uniformed men. Can you imagine losing all of the pictures you have taken on this trip?
After the orphanage it was trip to WalMart and KFC for lunch. I found WalMart to be a very intimidating experience, 4 floors of store, couldn't find the clothing section (did we mention this boy is big? Much bigger then we expected?) and no one spoke english. The fruit section of the store smelled heavenly, the dried squid in a bag section made me ill. I also saw some beef tongue hanging around in this section. I can't even think about it, it gives me the heebie jeebies. We learned at KFC that even though you think you are in line someone is going to come up and butt in front of you because you aren't standing on top of the person in front of you. This perturbed me so you better believe I was breathing my hot breathe down the neck of the guy who butted in front of me, ain't nobody getting in between me and my greasy fried chicken!!!
Chris and I ended up venturing out in to town to get the boys some coats and to get Weifeng some pants. Chris tried his hardest to bargain down the ladies at the store, but to no avail, they wouldn't bite.
Our last adventure for the day was out to dinner at a western restaurant called BlueBird. This experience can only be described as exhausting. Think of when Tarzan was brought out of the jungle and into civilization. Every thing is foreign to this little guy, table clothes on the table, going under the table, not touching everything on the table, not playing with the silverware. We are taking the perspective that he is a baby Harding and we will have to train him just like the other kiddos. You can pray for us to keep this in mind as we spend more and more time together.
I'm going to include a few pictures for your viewing pleasure!
---Chris and Susanne
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Adventures in Town
The other big thing about leaving the hotel is the traffic. There are no traffic laws. The stop light out side of our hotel is not functioning, the traffic never stops, it is a continuous flow. To cross it we find a big group and try to hustle as quickly as possible. The pedestrian does not have the right of way. Cars are going one way, scooters are going both directions on either side of the street and the bikes are going where ever they want to. Crazy and death-defying all at the same time. The horns never stop either all night long. I have heard 20 beeps just sitting here typing.
I was convinced yesterday that we were going to see someone get hit by our bus, his back was up against it as we drove past. Crazy, crazy, crazy!
Dinner Anyone?
The Hardings are hungry! Hey, Susan said there was a KFC within walking distance, only 8 minutes. Let's go for it! Wow, the concierge has a map to show us how to get there, and he said it is only 8 mins also!
A few little problems with this plan...
1. We can't read the street signs.
2. The people we asked for help, don't speak English and our Mandarin is very limited.
3. There is some kind of street construction going on around here and there is this gigantic blue wall all around it. You have to walk a very far distance to get around it and you can't see over it!
These 3 problems combined equal 1 hour walking tour that doesn't equal up to dinner. Oh, we stumbled upon the KFC only to find that it is closed, as in reconstruction, as in dirt, lumber and the like inside the windows.
I just want to get back to the hotel, but Chris somehow talks to this Chinese lady who starts leading us around. How do we tell her to stop!!! We don't want to follow you!!!
All of this leads to us back at the hotel and a dinner in the hotel restaurant. Why didn't we just do that at the start of the night?
We still all love each other even though it was touch and go there for a few minutes with a hungry belly.
This poor kid must be wondering what he has gotten himself into!
---Susanne
Gotcha Day!
We drove up to the building, which was not very official looking at all. We were sent in to a room with a conference table and some couches. You could just feel the anxiety in the room, we were getting teary-eyed as we waited and there was just a nervous energy all around us. Susan said the children would be there in about 5 minutes, so we waited and waited and waited some more. The doorbell rang and we all said "they are here", Josh being Josh said, "who's here?". I love that kid, we all had a good laugh and relaxed a minute.
Monday, June 16, 2008
Butterflies & Jitters
I'll back up a little to set the scene. Sunday night, after two days of full throttle Beijing touring and the physical exertion of climbing the Great Wall, we had the treat of going to a beautiful theater in Beijing to see the "Flying Acrobatic Show." It was one of those vacation decisions where you just go for it because, hey, "When's the next time we're going to be in Beijing?"
The show was awesome, everything you would expect it to be. At least the 50% of it I actually saw between doing touch and goes with my head as I fought off sleep the whole time. Kit slept through the first half. Joshua slept through the second half. Only Zachary and Susanne, blessed with hummingbird metabolisms, were able to gut-check it through. Joshua stumbled out of the theater looking punch drunk, fighting off tears, with onlookers laughing.
So we get back to the hotel, race to get our check in luggage out in the hallway by 10:30, log about 4 hours of sleep, get up at the crack of dawn, and head off to the domestic terminal at the Beijing Airport. Our guide, Sheri (pictured above with us in the lobby of our Beijing Hotel), had arranged for a friend of hers to meet us and the Fiorelli family at the terminal to help us navigate the check in process. She was great, although she didn't speak any English. We wondered what security would be like, but it ended up being a little more low-key than ours in the USA.
We had to wait a couple of hours for boarding. The boarding pass said gate 47, so off we went on a half mile hike down in to the depths of the airport. When we got there, the signs didn't match our flight, and all we saw was a bunch of busses parked outside the gate. Off we went again, deciding that the LCD signs were telling us that gate 23 was what we wanted. A half mile later (think of the old Huey Lewis video where the family is trapsing around the beach with all their earthly posessions), we're at gate 23 with not much confidence. We had stopped at two customer service desks where speaking English was not on their service menu. An Asian man who ended up being from Oklahoma (wacky) assured us that we had the right idea.
Cue Huey Lewis...as we chatted away, excitement building, one of the endless airport announcements (that we would have missed unless the Oklahoman was there) told us that they were boarding our flight out of gate 47. We logged another half mile, this time at a quicker pace, and scooted through gate 47 to board a mystery bus to our mystery plane a mile or two away on the tarmac.
Now we find that we had exchanged our 767 at gate 23 for a beat up looking old 737 for our 3 hr flight to Kunming City, home of Weifeng's orphanage. This flight was Harding style, which is to say crammed in the back like sardines. Southwest's marketing hype about having more seat space actually turns out to be true.
Orange juice -good. Congee (watery rice with all flavor painstakingly extracted) - not so good. 1,000 year old egg (their name, not mine) - 'nuff said. Watery yogurt - edible. Some sort of breakfast sandwich with mystery meat - mixed reviews.
I mention this not so much to complain, but to let you know how desperate we are for Western food. Kit's assesment of the breakfast sandwich: "I guess I'm eatin' a hambuhguh for breakfast," with a little shrug of the shoulders. Susanne resorted to the survival school technique of staring at the chicken sandwich ad for Mcdonald's in her copy of People. Yes, Christian friends, Susanne has a little weakness.
God has used the food issue to teach us how overwhelming a change Weifeng is facing as he joins our family.
We arrived in Kunming, took a bus back to the terminal, grabbed our luggage, and met our Kunming guide, Susan. Her smile and excited greeting reassured us as we headed off to the apex of our adventure.
Gotta wait till the next post for the big stuff....Felt like I have to get the details recorded, or they will wash away with time. I will give you this Sneak Preview: God is faithful! Things have gotten off to a great start!
-Chris